We live in SC with my family. I hate SC but my family is here and my step father has cancer and we don't know what to expect...5 months or 5 years. He is ill right now and I do a lot for my mother and grandmother but my husband works...well basically lives in another state. We see him 1 week a month. He cannot come back to SC for another 6-12 months and then he can work from home but in the mean time he needs to be there but what if my step-father dies while we are gone. My oldest daughter is VERY, VERY close to him. I don't know.. I just don't know. I miss my husband and I am tired, I have a 3 month old who my husband barely knows..but I am so torn.