I USE TO THINK OF LOVE AS A FEELING................CHILL-BUMPS, ECT.  SINCE GROWING UP I SEE WHAT LOVE IS!  I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN ALL ALONG!  WE LIVE AND LEARN OR LIVE AND NEVER LEARN!!!!!!!

LOVE IS LONGSUFFERING, NOT ALL ABOUT YRSELF AND YR. NEEDS AND DESIRES. ALSO, LOVE IS AN ACTION WORD!!!  I HATE IT WHEN PEOPLE SAY THEY LOVE ME AND TURN AROUND AND HURT MY FEELINGS ON PURPOSE, IT SEEMS! LOVE IS KIND!  WHERE ARE THE KINDHEARTED?

I HAVE MADE UP MY MIND TO SET BOUNDERIES.  I HAVE A HARD TIME OF LETTING GO OF LOVE ONES BUT AT THIS TIME IN MY LIFE I PUT THEM WHERE THEY BELONG, EITHER BESIDE ME OR BEHIND ME. DON'T WANT TO SEEM MEAN, I JUST LEARNED TO "RESPECT MYSELF!" GOD HAS GIVEN ME A RIGHT TO LIVE MY LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND I CAN'T DO THAT IF I LET OTHERS CONTROL MY THOUGHTS  AND EMOTIONS.

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Kaci
Oct. 21, 2009 at 2:00 PM

You are so right! ((hugs)) Kathy

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suckie
Oct. 24, 2009 at 2:00 PM

as always you hit the nail on the head girlfriend,all that shines isn't always gold or even silver,glad we are still friends....love always and forever....Suckie

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Kynda...
Jan. 3, 2010 at 1:11 PM

EXCELLENT POST SISTER!  U are soooo on the money with this post!  I felt you breaking through to FREEDOM as I read it! 

Blessings sister!

ViKi

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