I shouldnt have to deal with this less than 2 months before my wedding!!

[mommyin07n08]

So my MIL TODAY decided she all of a sudden can afford the flower girl dress, the plane tickets, the hotel, and all that jazz to come out for our wedding. IN A MONTH AND A HALF. 2 weeks ago she said she couldnt afford all the stuff. So now she has decided I need to find the flower girl dress for her daughter (who I DONT want in the wedding, but its the only way she is willing to come, and they are the only people from my hubbys side coming). The dress has been discountinued. I called her store they have 1 dress but it could sell today, they wont hold it, and it takes 8 weeks to order. On top of that I now have to go buy her daughter a gift and I bet she will be expecting one too, even though all she has done is make our lives miserable since we started planning this wedding. I have to figure out what to do about flowers cause my flowers all came in last week, I am not about to go buy ANOTHER flower girl basket because ONLY MY DAUGHTER will be carrying one. This now puts me at 3 flower girls and the other one doesnt care that she is carrying a boquet. She is just greatful I am WANTING to include her in my wedding (the whole family is the sweetest family you could ever possibly meet, they are just overjoyed to be invited to 1 year olds birthday party for the fact that they are wanted to be included). My SIL I guarantee will throw a fit about not tossing flowers. If she doesnt my MIL will. I am so freaking stressed when I know I shouldnt be because I know its not good for my baby but all of a sudden I have to move things around because she decided she is coming and HER daughter WILL be in the wedding or THEY WILL NOT COME. I told them fine dont come and so did my hubby and she got all pissy about it and wouldnt stop calling and calling us rude and telling us we know nothing about being older siblings (im the oldest of 5 and even my own 2 younger sisters are not in the wedding but she EXPECTS me to put HER child in when she is not my blood because she is HIS blood, and told me if she was my mother she would be mad I am not including my 2 little sisters in the wedding, they are not my moms kids) and our daughter wont give a fuck to be in our wedding but its her daughters dream. I finally gave up after listening to it everyday and said fine she can be in it and MIL decided she couldnt afford to come out. Now my wedding is in 7 weeks and I have to include my SIL. She is gonna make my wedding day a living nightmare because hubby refuses to dance with her and we will be telling everyone (but my mom because I want to tell her by Friday) that we are expecting. She is gonna flip out on us for that too. I am to the point of if its supposed to be all our siblings having 5 fucking flower girls and including MY 2 baby sisters as flower girls. My 17 year old sister and 14 year old brother are already in the wedding.

I know I am rambeling but my hubby is not home, my matron of honor is at work (she will be here next week though to help out with some of the stuff and her birthday, then will be back before the wedding).