HOW TO GET YOUR MANS ATTENSION : )

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THIS IS CRAZY on getting your mans ATTENSION : )   Reading this funny fable? real story? haven't researched it but found it too interesting....

"Lust, love and like. A healthful, happy love relationship serves up three out of three. A healthful, happy love relationship is a passionate best friendship. "

"Many women think men only care about the lust angle—finding a hot bod for hot sex. Unfortunately,....." 

"However, a healthful, happy love relationship is what Aristotle calls a relationship of shared virtue—when you find a soul mate. Where you each get one another at your core, inspire and support each other to grow into your best possible selves. A relationship of shared virtue is where you feel the whole triumvirate: lust, love and like.'

"This is so important to prioritize, that I'm repeating this reminder in bold italic letters: If you can't stimulate a man in more areas than from the waist down, you will only be attracting a relationship of pleasure or a relationship of utility. And this man will not remain your man for long."

"If you want to be a man's Princess Charming, you MUST do more than work on tightening your buns or boosting up your boobs! You MUST tap into what I call "The Scheherazade Effect."

There once was a king who got very bored with the women in his life very quickly. He would marry a new virgin, "shtup" her, then send her pretty self away pretty much immediately…to be beheaded. Talk about a bad breakup, huh? And talk about a King Harming, huh? Anyway, this king killed thousands of women by the time he finally met the enchantingly different Scheherazade. What made Scheherazade enchantingly different? Scheherazade loved to read books and had lots of fascinating ideas and interests to share. Wisely educated in morality and kindness, she had a passion for poetry, philosophy, sciences and arts. She kept the king on the edge of his bed—not with mere alluring sexual positions—but with alluring stories to be told, each more exciting than the next. And so the king kept Scheherazade alive—eagerly anticipating each new tale—until, lo and behold, 1,001 adventurous nights passed—along with three sons—and the king not only learned to love Scheherazade, but he made her his queen. Talk about living happily ever after, huh?

The lesson learned? It's very seductive to a man when you, as a full-bodied and full souled woman, have passions in your life you can share to keep him inspired, titillated, growing and thriving. 

THAT IS ALL I WILL POST, LOOK AT MY LINK AND READ IT FROM OPRAHS SITE YOURSELF I LOVED IT AND THEN JOINED CAFE MOM, AND FEEL THE SPARKS BREWING NOW AS I HAVE MORE TO LAUGH ABOUT, READ, LEARN AND GIVE!

http://www.oprah.com/article/relationships/dating/20091006-orig-seduction-tips