MY fATHER HAS CANCER

[nina722]

 well he Came  over from San Diego it take's about 1 hr and 45 min away from me . we sat at the dinner table , after we were done he Say's I have to tell you girls something . I want you all here together . But as always 's my oldest sister is angry at me . for year's now I have told her I'm sorry . I was only helping her son form getting abuse . any way she doesn't come over so HE SAY'S I HAVE CANCER . WE right away burst out to tear's and he just telling us to be breve and not  to cry . to pray for him in stead . it is skin cancer on his face stage 2 . But his wife was saying they wont Know the out come of it till they remove it . and then they will know more of it . my Father has never been really close to us since him and mom got a divorce . I was age 10 at the time . they went separate way's But my Father . has tried to do his best in everything hes done . I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AT THIS POINT I WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIM LIKE GO OVER AND A WEEK OR SO TRY TO HELP FIXS HIS HOUSE UP WITH PICTURES FORM ALL HIS GRAND KIDS . I'M SOOOOOOOO LOST WHAT DOSE ANYONE DO AT THIS POINT WITH THERE LOVED ONE (YAA ALLAH) (GOD) WHAT IS THER FOR ME TO DO RIGHT NOW . I'M PRAYING BUT WHAT ELSE CAN I DO FOR HIM DO I SEND HIM GREETING CARD EVERDAY TO LET HIM KNOW I'M HERE IF HE NEEDS ME HUH I'M CRYING WRITEING THIS NOW AAAAA I LOVE YOU DADDY . AND I WONT YOU GO OOOOXXOOOO OH DADDY WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO NOW .

[Aasiyah]

Oct. 19, 2009 at 5:25 AM

The best thing you can do for your father is ask Allah to guide him. Stage 2 cancer can be curable since it's early stage.  Have hope. read up on it so you can familiarize yourself with what will be going on.  Make alot of dua to Allah to bring ease to all your affairs and ask Allah to guide your father sis.  

[tericared]

Oct. 22, 2009 at 1:10 PM

Sister....just ask Allah for help....My Great Uncle has had cancer removed from his nose chin and the side of his face, 3 times he was told he had cancer....He caught it early too......Just be there for your Dad...