Idiot says that being a mom and/or babysitter is not a job (explicit language)

[Beautysmom]

This guy named Justin and I are no longer friends!! I asked all my friends to help me get $30 bucks because I may be short on rent right? You know what he told me? Get a job!! When I told him that I do have a job (babysitting) he said thats not a real job for these reasons:
1. No Taxes are taken out
2. Babysitting is not a real job &
3. Because its not cutting it!!!!
4. Being a mother is not a job!!!
5. I don't work 40 hours a week!!


Girl I went OFF!!! I said how can you say that? I watch 3 sometimes 4 babies a week and I watch 3 for sure ALL week and one 24/7 (Richelle). I had something for everything that SUCKA put!! For the first one I said who the hell said that taxes define a job ok? I work I make money AND what? For the second one how the hell isn't babysitting a job? I said that people do it all of the time in and out of their home. He said that it doesn't have to do with taxes. I said ummm daycare centers and babysitting services have to pay taxes. Also when people are making $90 a week PER kid I say thats good dang money ok? I charge $50 a week or 5-10 a day!!


Also with him saying that obviously it isn't cutting it? I was like fool when have I EVER been late on my rent? NEVER NEVER NEVER!!! I have been here a year this month and I have NEVER been late. Everyone gets in a rut sometimes and this is my rut!!! Okay number four he said being a mother is not a job and I don't work $40 hours a week!! I said BOY PLEASE (Chris Crocker Style LOL)!!! I have had MEN watch ONE child and pray that they never have to do it again because its NOT easy!!! You may think its easy but with one kid its a challenge now on top of my baby I have 2 or 3 more (Autumn every now and again)??? BOY PLEASE!!!!


As for his I don't work 40 hours a week. I said baby not counting my own child I work over 40 hours a week with NO breaks okay? I watch Nasir from 8 to 5 everyday but Friday so thats 9 1/2 hour days and on Friday I watch him for 6 1/2 hours so thats what 44 1/2 work week!! Not counting Richelle okay. Richelle alone is 15 hours a day!! (Taking out sleep time) So I said I do your 40 frigging hours in a 2 1/2 days ya know?


I couldn't believe what I was hearing(seeing) That ish hurt my feelings. He told me that he had to be blunt with me so I would wake up and smell the roses!! So that I would get a real job!! I said hell naw!! If I could work out there I would but I have NOONE to watch my baby! If I out her in daycare pretty much the money I make would go straight to daycare so whats the point of that? Also if I work after Jonathon gets off I would never have time with my family!! Plus I would be making the same amount of money due to the times I can work. SO!!! I told him I am doing what I can to bring money in the house!! I used to walk to work 9 months pregnant in the cold to get to work and afterwards I walked with my baby to work until she had gotten too old for me to take her!! So I worked the theatre and hardly EVER saw my family!! So I quit because I got married and my money was just extra money because it wasn't much!!!



So he sat there and kicked me when I was down!! I was like what kind of friend are you!!? When you ass was almost homeless did I say "Oh too bad you shouldn't have walked off your job?" No I said if you need a place to stay come here. If you need some money I will do what I can. When he actually did become homeless I yet again offered my place and some money!! Did I say ha ha ha thats what you get for frigging that psycho boy? Maybe I did but still you never sleep with your frigging roommate because that crap will backfire EVERY TIME!! Someone that was an adult and not lead by his dick would have known that right? Right!!!! Oh as a finally kick in the ass I asked him if he even gave a crap if we weren't friends anymore and he said NOT REALLY!!! That was it right there!! That was the last time we will talk!! I cannot believe that!! I was like dang well you think you know someone and you think someone is your friend!!! Ha!!


Anyway I will end this now and finish tomorrow!!!

Love ya!!!