Our Daughter

[ninajo]

This is our beautiful,talented,sweet daughter Cindi. first she is our daughter. Second she is the mom to our grandsons. Third she is the hardest working single mom I have ever known. I can honestly say I admire her for having the strength to come thru the hardest times a wife and mom has to come through. She was only sixteen when she married the man? of her dreams. She worked so hard for that scumbag. She had quit school because he couldn't keep up and was failing. She went and got her GED although she was working 60+ hours weekly. She paid all the bills for their apt. while he worked 30 hrs a week and spent his money and all she had over bills. His only interest was cars and working on them.. She was working so much she was sick all the time. If she was at home she was trying to rest to go back to work. For eight years this was her life work home and work. When she was finally so sick she had to go to the doctor. She had endometriosis. The doctor told her if she was ever going to have a baby she would have to have surgery and maybe be able to get pregnant with fertility medicines. He also explained this could cause multiple births. She had always wanted a baby and sees her younger brother (now 18) married and having our first grandson. She had the surgery and in a few days while she is off work because of complications from the surgery,Scumbag left her for another woman. Cindy was so devastated she was so sick the doctor told her after all the surgery,she wouldn't be able to get pregnant. She had taken like a week of the medicine that could make her have multiple births. He took her off that med. and put her on vitamins and other meds. She had friends at work of over 6 years that helped her get thru this. Her boss was by her side and he and her ended up going out. She went with him for a few weeks and was pregnant,on top of the world. She was 24 years old and now pregnant with a baby after the specialist said she would never be a mom. She was still working full time but only 40 hours a week. Then scum-ball has a motorcycle wreck,his mom calls Cindi,he was almost killed. We take Cindi to the hospital she is 6mths pregnant. She walks in on him with THE woman with him. You could see my little girl die in her eyes. She just stood still....He ask THE woman to leave. After a few days Cindi ends up taking him back into her life. After he came home from the hospital he was in a hospital bed for weeks. He was brought to his moms from the hospital in a hospital bed for weeks. Cindi woeked her job and stayed with them. She waited on him and (later) his mom told friends of mine how he would make Cindi get up and hand feed him cereal when she was so sleepy she would sleep sitting up in a chair, he would call her if she went into the bedroom and laid down so she just slept in a chair beside his bed. Her and the babys dad broke it off all together,he told her he would not be a part time dad. He wanted her and his baby or nothing. So she choose nothing. She quit her job when she went into the hospital and gave birth to Dillon. She named scumbag as the dad the only ones who knew for sure was the parents and grandparents. After the birth they got themselves a place to live and he was released to go to work. He worked at a job with his dad for the city works dept. Cindi was so happy with her new life. She was never sopose to have a baby now she has a gorgeous little boy. He was born in Aug. she went to the same doctor he told her more surgery for the endometriosis. When she went for the surgery she was pregnant this time with scumbags baby. She gave birth to her second baby boy in October eleven months after her first baby. When they come to visit us,she carried Dillon the eleven month old inside, then goes back to the truck to get the newborn. Scumbag doesn't carry babies. I had plenty to say about that but was told that she was the mom she would carry her own babies. (her words) He was still working the job of riding around in a truck for the city his dad was his boss. Cindy had her aunt help her start raising puppies as in shih-shuz and poodles..They build a new home and was doing really well. Scumbag looses his job due to smoking pot. So did his dad. They go into business selling used cars. Cindi is paying all bills again taking care if both babies and working in the kennel. Scumbag is seen with another woman but of course who would Cindi believe? Up until he walked out and left her with the bills and nothing coming in but her kennel money. She was devastated again now with two babies and a home. She found the job she has today,she worked it nights and her kennel days for 6mths until she couldn't do it anymore then she sold her kennel and let scumbag and his HO have the boys home. He applied for the divorce she kept the house until it became inpossible for her to pay for at which time he could choose to move into it. If he wanted to live in it fine but IF it was ever sold by either party the boys were to have the proceeds from the sale. He moved in and lived there for about 5 months,sold it collected over 35,000 dollars and the boys have not yet seen a penny. Judge is still out on that.  Cindi is still working at the same place scumbag has at least a dozen jobs and has took his HO to bankrupcy court so to all the HO's out there Karma is a bitch.......more later....10/25 at 10.p.m.