MY SITUTION

[Karen_Wisdom]

I have a bf that has two kids one is Jayme she is two years old, the other one is Joyln she is four they are very adorable..I have lots of things to learn cuz i was an only child when i was growning up. I am needing advice to see if anyone else is in my sitution. thanks

[Anouck]

Oct. 28, 2009 at 6:32 PM

Depends on a lot of things... How long have you been together? Do you live together? Where's their mother? If you just started dating this guy, and the girls have their mother around, don't try to mother them, period. It's not your place. Just play with them, make it fun to be around, befriend them. That's all you really have to do...

[kkbird]

Oct. 28, 2009 at 7:06 PM

treat them with love and kindness,attention, the rest should fall into place, but if you guys haven't been together long .... it is new.  Just play and don't take over DAD"S PART. HE too needs to help and not leave them for you to care for.  they are his and he needs to be involved.  have lots of fun though, painting nails, making cookies,coloring,videos, etc. Good luck

[Karen_Wisdom]

Oct. 28, 2009 at 7:06 PM

I have been together with him for 5 months.. No we do not live together.. there mother lives somewhere else.. they got divoriced like a year ago.. there mother is not a good one she does take care of them she just does not spend quaity time likes play with them.. which isnt good..

(Original Poster)