caught cheating again

[Tepper]

ok this is the 4th time I caught him cheating on me. Right now Im at the point where I just dont care anymore what he does. I tell him to leave me for her but he says he doesnt want to he wants to stay with me. I admit I havent showed him any affection lately but how can I show him affection when I cant even trust him? I personally have given up trying. My parents are mad at him cause he doesnt even know what hes doing is wrong. my brother invited me to thankgiving dinner at his place and they said I can't bring my husband cause they dont like him. so now i have to tell him that he has to stay home while i go have thanksgiving dinner without him. Hes gonna ben pissed but what can I do? I tell him my family doesnt like him, he just gets mad and says that they need to grow up and get over it. I stay home while he works 2 jobs and I cook dinner and clean the house and take my son to school everyday and as soon as he gets home from work he gets mad and says what have you been doing all day??

so if anyone wants to send me a comment to me good or bad its ok cause I can handle it. I have no more emotions to show I just seem invisible sometimes like no one sees me.

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[jnsdrf]

Nov. 5, 2009 at 1:45 AM

I am so sorry this is happening to you. I personally would have left him the first time it happened. I think you need to go out and find a job and then leave him. He does not deserve someone like you, you can find better, someone who will treat you right and love you for you and not cheat on you! I know it is hard but i have been there and the only thing you can do is be strong for you and your children and just let him go. If you need to talk you can PM me anytime. Men like that are scum and just think they can do whatever they want even if it hurts you. Please for yours and your childrens sake leave him now before it gets worse.. Good luck and i know in the end you will make the right choice.

[sati769leigh]

Nov. 5, 2009 at 8:26 AM

Honey him cheating on you has nothing to do with YOU. you cannot change him. You cannot fix what is broken in him. dont let him break YOU. Sounds like it is time to stop enabling him. it hurts, you hurt, he has not changed and it wont get better. stop allowing him to hurt you. time to go honey.