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My husband just left me
- Nov 5, 2009 at 1:40 AM
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I knew it was coming could fell it. Slowly the I love yous stopped the hugging and kissing stopped. I'm still in shock, sad, hurt. I don't understand what I did wrong. He says he just doesn't love me the way he used to love me. That I dont' make him happy anymore. I don't know what to do. Should I beg him. I don't see the point if he doesn't love me any more. I love him I thought we were happy. that he was just having a hard time dealing with a tight budget and hardly no spending money. I'm so depressed. Any advice
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ITA with the previous poster. dont beg, but ask him to do counceling before seeing a divorce. marriage is not always about passionate love. and love can wax and wane in the most wonderful marriage. it may be the case with how he feels right now and as a man they can get very confused. Marriage is a committment that should not be disolved on a whim on his part. he should do something to try and save it first.
as for you? yes it is devastating right now. this pain is going to hurt for a while I am afraid. seek your own counceling to help you work through it. and realize that this too shall pass. if this was not meant to be there will be a new future awaiting you. when something ends, it is a new beginning for something else. allow yourself to mourn and feel sorrow, but dont drown in it. in a few weeks seek out some other activities like the person before me said. keep yourself involved in life.
I'm sorry...I hope counseling might work for you all. And, if not, at least it will give you some insight and ideas on how to move forward.
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ask him to seek counceling before going through a divorce. if it can't be worked then get on with your life as soon as you can. find a hobby or pursue a passion of yours. don't let your life go to the ruins. And its not your fault if he feels this way. I'm sure you have a lot of love to offer someone. Good luck honey