I'm Just Saying

[diva73]

I love cafemom.  It has been very helpful to me. There was a time when this was site was all i had.  

There is one thing i don't get and that is, why do we post things and them get mad when people don't agree with us.  I just don't understand why we as women can't talk about things as adult instead of acting like high school kids.

I'm just saying 

[lad-tink]

Nov. 6, 2009 at 6:47 PM

I think it's more of somebody posting something, then looking for support or somebody to connect with. 

There are a lot of moms on CM that think that they are the best mom's in the world and like to judge and bash.  Some moms are harsh and cruel.

I have learned not to post vents or look for some kind words when I have a bad situation at home.  The posts I post are fluff posts.

I agree with your post

[Anouck]

Nov. 6, 2009 at 6:51 PM

I can only assume you're talking about me and my post. What you don't understand is, it depends on the subject. If you choose to forward face your baby at a year old, and I want to keep mine rear facing as long as possible, that's something we can agree to disagree on.

Denying people equal rights, and being oblivious as to why you are indeed doing that, whole different matter.

[diva73]

Nov. 6, 2009 at 8:02 PM

Wow, being oblivious is your opinion but not at all truth.....I guess you don't get me and i don't get you. but to be rude is just well i don't have words for it......its no different you wanted someone who didn't agree to say so and I did end of story....and for the record your not the only one who does it.  At times nothing on here is black or white....you can't talk about how you feel and what you think with out people acting like children instead of adults and its ashame.  I come on here to interact with adults after working with teenagers all day.  Yet at times it feels like i'm dealing with the children. 

(Original Poster)