I know that many would say a man don't want to raise another man children !  Or it a reason why your not married and the clock is ticking on both subjects .  I say none of it matters, if  that man love you he don't care."   He is will to except all of  you even the children!  But  I do believe in a woman with or without children to make wised decisions.  Do you think you would be picky about a man ?

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ironk...
Nov. 15, 2009 at 1:58 PM

A lot of men lie, I don't need one

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angel...
Nov. 15, 2009 at 3:11 PM

 If  they  lie,"I wouldn't needed one either !  Move on and find one who want lie or at lease talk to you about his lying mouth!

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sunfl...
Nov. 15, 2009 at 3:11 PM

Oh yeah, I SO would be pickey.  I actually wouldn't go to the point of introducing him to any of the kids until he is comfortable with the situation or myself for that matter.  I would intro him if there was a hint of something more intimate or serious. 

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angel...
Nov. 15, 2009 at 3:19 PM

 LOL"  You can't  loose with the kids, they will smell out all his hellish lies.

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maidn
Nov. 18, 2009 at 12:21 AM

I have been single for 7 years and don't see that changing. I love my life now even with being a single mother of 6 children , 4 of which are still home. I will never go back to having to answer to a man for anything! I have my hands full raising my children and don't need someone complicating it. I do what I want , when I want with no one to answer to. No dirty socks on the floor . No sharing the remote My rules my way. My children actually want me to date ... and I do occasionaly but it is on my terms, We can go out , dance , laugh have fun ... then go away I don't want you around my kids, messing up my house or in my life. I spent too many years in dominated by a man who treated me like his mother, maid and built in slave to ever revisit that particular hell. 

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