Love......how to know when it has ended?

[brandoneaglemom]

Everyone gets married assuming it's going to last 'forever'...but exactly how long is forever? could it be months? Years? Week? Even days? I am not sure exactly...but I do know that being married has brought on its own set of tribulations. Ups..downs..cries..laughter. Insanely romantic moments...absolutely amazing emotional ones too- such as having our first, second, and even third child! Those moments will never ever be taken back, no matter how harsh our relationship becomes. Our children are our life! They mean the world to us, even if we no longer mean the world to eachother! I know I love Jeff. I know i've messed up in the past. I know that he has too..but I've forgiven him with all my might. It took years, but I have. He is having a difficult time doing the same for me. He doesn't tell me i'm beautiful anymore- something I need to hear more often than not...but then I think...is my confidence so low that I need to hear this from him, and not believe it myself?? idk.....just confused.

[brandoneaglemom]

Nov. 20, 2009 at 11:56 PM

always believe in yourself, and tell him how you feel. Its time you put the past in the past and move forward. If we keep staying in the past your life will pass you by and you will miss so much of the goos stuff. Today, take care of the situation at hand, this is your life and your kids life. Do what is rightfully right. We all have problems but we must try and move forward. i hope all is well with you and your loved one. if you need a friend for support im here.

Nov. 22, 2009 at 6:11 AM

Thank you

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