Many people think only teenagers self injure, and that they do it for attention.
#1 adults self injure too
#2 How can something you hide and are ashamed of be for attention
#3 It is an addiction
#4 It is a coping skill
#5 If you haven't lived it don't judge those who have
Self-injury, also called self-harm, self-abuse, self-damage, and in its most broad and extreme cases, self-mutilation, is the act of purposefully and compulsively damaging the self, usually the skin. While acts of self-injury may at times result in death, these are not suicide attempts. Acts of self-injury include the following types of behaviors: cutting, scratching, burning, head banging, and hitting yourself with a hammer.
While psychiatrists disagree as to whether self-injury is a diagnosis in it's own right or a symptom of a disorder (such as borderline personality disorder), one thing is known, self-injurers suffer in silent shame and isolation. It is estimated that self-injurers comprise at least 1% of the population, with a higher proportion being female, and nearly half admitting to being victims of physical and/or sexual abuse in childhood. A significant number of self-mutilators also suffer from eating disorders, alcohol and/or substance abuse problems, personality disorders, and/or mood disorders. While each self-mutilator has a different story to tell, all share certain characteristics;
| The self-harm behavior is recurrent. | |
| The self-injurer experiences a mounting sense of fear, dread, anxiety, anger, or tension before the event. | |
| A sense of relief accompanies the event. | |
| A sense of deep shame follows. | |
| The self-injurer attempts to cover-up any evidence (e.g. scars...) of his/her act. |
If you are a friend or relative of a self-injurer, there are ways in which you can help.
| Show concern for the person's inner turmoil and pain as well as for the injury itself. | |
| Encourage the self-injurer to come out of isolation and seek support groups and therapy. | |
| Encourage the person to explore and express the emotions behind their urge to self-harm. | |
| Encourage and applaud any steps taken by the self-injurer to break the cycle of self-harm. | |
Above all do not pass judgment. |
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Thank you for posting this.
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