Have you ever been lied on and talk about , abused or had things stole and taking !  What kind of person who go out of there way to try and hurt you or take from you .  When you have family members like this , it make you wonder are they made from the same blood !  They say blood is thicker than water ."  I believe who ever said that , never met anyone who's related to me or you .   When a relative of yours can act out in hate or jealousy  .  I think it's better to stay away from them and avoid any problems . Especially  when they wish bad things on you.   It's so sad," you have to pray for them!   What would you do with family  who can't be trusted ?

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Littl...
Nov. 28, 2009 at 5:25 PM

My siblings aren't too involved. They all do their own thing and come together during holidays and birthdays. But my older sister (she's a middle child) is a perfectionist and likes to rub it in all of our faces. She thrives to be exactly like my mom. Right up to taking cake classes. I think she's even tried to knit. Idk but she has to rub it in. Me on the other hand along with my brother gave my mom a good run for her money lol. We got into trouble...learned lessons. We did ok in school but didn't overexceed although we could have. Bottom line is, we are our own people. I love my mom and I love my sister. But I could care less of trying so hard to live my life just as she does.

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Littl...
Nov. 28, 2009 at 5:27 PM

a couple weeks ago my sister who is 29 knew I was applying for a job and applied before I even knew I had it. She found out about it at night, My interview was in the morning and the lady mentioned her name at my interview. I was pissed and let her know it. But I got the job :D This isn't the first time she's done it either

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angel...
Nov. 28, 2009 at 10:43 PM

 What would you do if your relative called all the time or lived in the same neighborhood and expect you to do for them all the time ?

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Midni...
Nov. 28, 2009 at 10:46 PM

I disowned them.  Really I play nice for my dad because he asks, but I don't go out of my way to talk to him or anything.

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maidn
Nov. 29, 2009 at 2:38 PM

I cut ties .... I have no time in my life for relationships that are not affirming and positive ... life is too short and I have neither the time or patience to deal with negative people even if they are family. 

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