Sometimes I wonder something.  I know many of my friends drop the other one a line every so  often to let him know how C is doing, this doesn't bother me, If i didn't want him to know, I let them know anything.  However, I wonder if they ever do so much as ask him if he has a really good reason to not support her, or to do what I want him to do to be able to see her?  He doesn't have to pay all his own bills, he has roommates.  He has enough money to buy new tats. He claims to be seriously mentally ill (And I quote "If people knew even half of what was in my head, they would lock me up forever"). He never wanted to take the steps to legally claim her. In this case, paying support is important, it would be the best way he would have to state for the record that she is his daughter since he doesn't want to pay for the lawyer and the paternity test. So, I wonder, do they only think in the aspect of making Karl happy, or do they think in the aspect of what is best for Karl and my daughter? If they don't think in the aspect of what's best, they need to let me know so that I can cut them out of my life, I have no time for people like that.

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