Just to start off, I never use to be as shy as I am now.  I use to go up to people and start a converstation.  I use to even go up to guys, tell them that they were cute, and then ask for their number.

Now . . . I'd rather run away from anyone who remotely tries to start a conversation with me.  And its even hard at work since I have to talk to people and such.  I don't know what happened, nor do I know where to start to make a change.

The reason I am on here is that I thought it would be a better way to find like minded mothers, so that I wouldn't have this problem with me shying away.  But I never know what to say in bulletins/boards and I end up saying and doing nothing.  If I am going to be like this, then maybe I don't need to be on here.  I don't know.

 

I don't know anything anymore.

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kaita...
Dec. 19, 2009 at 4:07 PM

You seem like a sweet person! If you ever feel like talking just send me a message and we can gossip and girl talk ourselves to death! :) I always used to have a problem talking to people and then one day I realized that I just shouldn't care. They're either going to like me or they're going to hate me and at the end of the day all I'm really going to remember is if I stayed true and liked myself. So these days I try my best to make myself happy and be comfortable with who I am. Not going to say that I don't sometimes feel insecure but at least I have a good group of close family and friends that I know love me as a result of being true to myself. Hope any of this helps and that things work out for you!

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