Regreting My Marriage

[mommy2be_2007]

I've just been so angry and all together unhappy withmy husband and everything he has done to me in the past year. Like for instant I just recently gave birth to my beautiful baby girl in September 27th2009. I opted to give birth naturally. During this moment in time everyone knows that labor pains are no joke. This is the moment in time where I need my husband the most, I need him to be there to comfort me. The only difficulty was that we didn't have anyone that can watch over my 19 months son at the time, so yes my son was in the delivery room also. So my Husband did have his hands full, I understood that and appreciated his patients.What I didn't appreciate was the fact not one time did he ask me if i was ok, or if I need anything, even if more then likely i would just said no. just the gesture would've been nice. What made the situation worst is that he had the nerve to laugh at my labor pains and whisper to my son " ha ha that good for mom" like its some sort of joke. Labor pains are no joke, the nurse looked at me funny and so did my doctor. I feel my husband doesn't care about me. There many other instance's in my life where my husband has shone me he doesn't really care.

[mommi2be88]

Dec. 25, 2009 at 8:51 PM

Maybe he tried to make a joke of it so that your son wouldn't be so uncomfortable? If you were clearly in pain, maybe he could tell your son was getting worried and was trying to ease him. 

Have you talked to him about the way you felt?