Women are absolutely ruthless.. I am not talking about myself.. I am getting angry at the crap and BS that is happening in the main chat room of cafemom.. everyone is on everyone's butt about everything and getting banned cause of drama that they say people create. I don't believe a word of any of it, and people's names are getting slandered when there is no reason for it. 

Makes me nuts.  I don't get involved, nor will I ever.  I dont' cause trouble, and stay out of everyone's business, and stick up for some of my friends as much as I can.  I try hard not to get angry at what people say about me, but sometimes that is hard.  I am not calling anyone's name out in this post, but some of you know who you are.  Women are just ruthless.. and I am proud to write this and say that I don't slander anyone's name in the chat, nor talk about them in an ill fashioned manner when they are not around, and or even when they are around. 

If someone talks about something that I don't agree with, I will say so and try to avert the conversation some other direction  rather than continuing on with the drama.

So cut it out ladies, it is not worth the ruffling of your feathers... and letting it get under your skin and getting your blood boiling

Life is not worth it.



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Dec. 26, 2009 at 3:09 PM

Well said, it is sad that women in general think they have to create drama. It is okay not to agree with the other person, we all have our own beliefs and that is what makes us all different. But do you have to bash others publicly??? I personally have enough drama in my life at times and come to CM for advice, support, friendship. I can only hope those causing the problems will read this and think

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Apr. 23, 2010 at 3:14 AM

I'm sad to say I agree.Most of the times I feel overwhelmed in the chat rooms,not to mention overlooked.I'm a friendly person by nature and wish for others to be the same.I'm not trying to be disrespectful but isn't it time we just got along?I've never posted anything judgemental about anyone online in my entire lifeI don't want to,it's not for me to say who's right or wrong.In the end we're all just moms trying to do our best for the ones we love.So what if we're different?Life would be immensely dull otherwise.

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