i meet a new guy an older guy i am 22 and hes 37. he already have three kids and hes a mechnic. i also got got 1 child. well we moved in together and all was well until work started moving slow struggling with bill and our kids. poof i started getting sick and grumpy so i jokingly took a pregnacy test positive. i told him he got up set because we can't afford another child we are damn near close to being homeless. i am already getting assistance from the state i can't get it for this one. he saying get a abortion but to be honest i have had 3 abortion in my life its time to stop. but hes right we can't afford it. i notice that he angry more because of all the stress and i am very depressed we argue all the time. i do love him but i am afaid that all the stress i am putting on him with bill my daughter hes kids and a new baby is gonna have him run. my mom said she is not gonna help me with this one i am lost.

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Dec. 27, 2009 at 9:17 PM

As you know you have already faced the loss of what abortion can do. there is always a reason and a child is always a blessings. I speak not from a high horse but someone who have faced a unplanned pregnancy there are peoople that have resources for you please seek them call Birthright 1-800-550-4900 I will keep you in my prayers and I pray you choose life for this baby.

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