Why Are Threesomes So Wrong ?

[SilverStardust]

I saw a mother put up a post about wanting to fulfill her husbands fantasy and have a threesome.  She wanted advice from other moms who have experienced this. 

The comments that came back were so ridiculous.  It is like she is a complete whore or she is being abused by her controling husband.  Why is it that way?

Is it so crazy that a couple might be very happy having threesomes or swinging !  There are lots of couples that are very happy this way. 

My parents had an a marriage where my mother was allowed to have a girlfriend.  She ended up moving in with us.  She had her own room and had her own time with my mom.  It was always private and not in front of us.  But they cuddled and held hands and kissed.  It didn't screw up my parents marriage.

I just don't get why women get so moody when a complete stranger makes the decision to do a threesome or be a swinger.  They are happy so who cares.  Why all the hate.  How is it so evil?  It just seems pathetic for the woman who is judging.

[Ashlynnsmommy07]

Dec. 28, 2009 at 11:03 PM

I guess if all parties are OK with it, so be it! None of my business. I personally am way too jealous to share!

[SilverStardust]

Dec. 28, 2009 at 11:05 PM

But the point is not that anyone wants the people asked to share.  It isn't about what you would do.  It is about what other people do.

(Original Poster)

[MSugarKane]

Dec. 29, 2009 at 11:28 AM

There is always a beginning, a middle, and an end to a threesome relationship.  Not involving the children or letting the children have any knowledge it is happening would be my advice.  Its not their business to know anyway.