I found out yesterday morning that a coworker and friend lost her baby, due to SIDS (sudden infant death syndrome) on DEC 26th. Connor was barely 4 months old. I was so shocked and heartbroken because I was there when her baby was born, and her DS was only 3 weeks older than my DS. I broke down and cried, and held my baby for so long. Our sons were play date buddies, and really close in age. I was shocked! I wanted to make this day never happen, I wanted to go to my friend and take her pain away. Now I cant sleep, and I worry so much. Life isnt fair, but when shit like this happens, it makes me angry and think that shit is just fucked up in the world, when my friends whole world was taken from her, and to make matters worst her hubby was deployed, so he only got to meet his son for two weeks! I dont know what to do for my friend, I'm at a lost for words. Thank You for reading. R.I.P Connor Motford Aug 26th 2009- DEC 26th 2009 You were taken too early from us, I wish it werent true. :'(

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mcque...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 2:04 AM

group hug

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Mommy...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 2:20 AM

My prayers are with all who are mourning. 

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mothe...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 2:52 AM

so sorry.

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Ninna...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 3:33 AM

I am so sorry for you and your friend.  SIDS was my bigges fear when I had my son that I kept my hand in his bed every night for three months just to feel him breath.  I hope that her husband is(or can be soon) there with her to help her with this.

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MSuga...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 7:14 AM

*hugs*

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tinamatt
Dec. 29, 2009 at 8:45 AM

What a terrible loss.  I'm so sorry.

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Pinky830
Dec. 29, 2009 at 12:56 PM

praying

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CoolM...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 1:20 PM

I will keep all of you in my prayers!  I have a niece just a little older than that...I just can't even imagine the pain.  ((HUGS))

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Colts...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 2:24 PM

that is so sad :(

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lovet...
Dec. 29, 2009 at 3:19 PM

I dont know you all and I am sitting here crying. wow.. I am so sorry.. and this world is FUCKED up as you put it.. Words can never express how we fewl when it comes to this sort of thing.. Just be there for her is all you can do.

 

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