How do you tell the ONE person in your life that you depend on for EVERYTHING that he is fucking up in reverse?  This past year has been literal HELL for us.  I won't get into too many details, because, even though he won't read this, I don't want to betray him like that.  Suffice it to say that at the beginning of the year he was accused of  a terrible act, at work.  He proved his innocence the hard way.  (Crisis #1 averted)  THEN he almost DIED!  (Actually while we were still dealing with #1)  He had a bleeding ulcer and was losing blood through his stool.  He was given 5 units of blood and in the ICU for 5 days!  At which point he was supposed to quit drinking....  Not even one month later and he is drinking just as much as before.  (Crisis #2- averted for the moment)  NOW he is transferring, THANK GOD!  BUT instead of checking out and taking 30 days transfer leave, he decides to take regular leave and not finish checking out of his command until after.  THANK GOD (again) that we could not make the trip home because today his command calls wondering where he is!  He has a leave chit on him, but, it's not approved, it's not signed, IT'S NOT ANYTHING!!!!!!!  Are you fucking kidding me?!?!?!?!?!?!  Has this past year not proven anything to you?  Luckily he was home when the NAVY started looking for him and he was able to go in and just get his ass chewed.  (Which he should have!) And hopefully now they are going to finish his transfer package and be done with it.  If not I think I might go insane LITERALLY!  (On him!)  angry 

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Dec. 30, 2009 at 3:53 PM

(Hugs)  Tonya im so sorry you had to deal with this all year.  If you need to vent are talk to anyone im hear for you.  Are you guys moving out of va since hes transferring. 

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