that title says alot. what!!! i had to read what thids lady was talking about so i did. she was a nanny for these 2 girls and they played with themself! and the mother said it was ok but they had to do it at night time in their room . ok this has been driving me crazy all day. i have 2 little boys and they have touched them self but have never played with it in front of me or any one else and if i seen them do it i would tell them that is something u do when u get older. that is just how i would handle it. now i know so people say u have to be upfront with ur kids about sex and stuff but i feel that the less they know about it and how they should wait untill they r married to do things like that the better. but i think it is crazy and it has been driving me crazy all day. if ur reading this thinking the same thing i am reply back and i want to know what u think!

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Jan. 1, 2010 at 4:24 PM

I'm sorry, I know you want people who agree with you to comment, but I have to say I disagree with you. I agree that you shouldn't necessarily give them every detail there is to know about sex, but I do think that if you employ the "less they know" method, that will only make them more curious when they get older, and in my opinion, more likely to end up having sex, b/c they want to know.

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Jan. 1, 2010 at 4:44 PM

i know that is how some my think but i know that to be un true cause i was all ways told the truth about everything and by knowing i wanted to do and i did and i had my son when i was 16 so i thank u for ur opinion but i guess it is a agree to disagree subject

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Jan. 1, 2010 at 6:27 PM

omg...I'm so amazed. Someone who can actually agree to disagree! Thank you for not getting all nasty that I disagreed with you. :)

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