that title says alot. what!!! i had to read what thids lady was talking about so i did. she was a nanny for these 2 girls and they played with themself! and the mother said it was ok but they had to do it at night time in their room . ok this has been driving me crazy all day. i have 2 little boys and they have touched them self but have never played with it in front of me or any one else and if i seen them do it i would tell them that is something u do when u get older. that is just how i would handle it. now i know so people say u have to be upfront with ur kids about sex and stuff but i feel that the less they know about it and how they should wait untill they r married to do things like that the better. but i think it is crazy and it has been driving me crazy all day. if ur reading this thinking the same thing i am reply back and i want to know what u think!