Today i'm pissed

[GothicMama]

 I know I've only been married a few weeks, so its probably just part of the adjustment period. And I'm not in school so I have nothing to keep my mind busy, BUT FUCK I"M PISSED AS ALL HELL!!!!!!!!!!! Larry told me he was taking today off, told me all week he was, so I made plans, then this morning he tells me he's going to go in! I'm thankful I have a man who wants to work, but there is this happy medium between lazy fucker and workaholic. Its called, WHAT NORMAL PEOPLE DO. You work your 40hrs, and take time off. (depending on the job of course) His job is just that, a 40 hr week, doesnt get paid more to do more, doesn't get paid less to do less. It makes me feel alone, and I dont want that, if I had I wouldnt have gotten married. I'm sorry but I had to vent. It just really fucking pisses me off.

[themama1]

Mar. 15, 2010 at 2:11 AM

I know how you feel but right now in this economy every one has to prove just how indespensible they really are . My husband is the only one that supports my family monitarily and he's salary at his job so same thing 40 hours is 40 hours he isn't going to get any more for working longer but when he does it shows his employer how much he wants and appreciates his job . I totally feel your pain though there are weeks that my 2 boys might get to see their daddy for maybe 5 hours total because he works the swing shift so he sleeps all morning and I have to leave to get my oldest to school before he gets up and then he doesn't get home until after they have gone to bed . Just think of how much sweeter that time is when he does take it , and think about how lucky he is to have that 40 hour job right now .... Hope that helped you feel a little better about it .