I get a call from what I thought was my boyfriend (caller ID), instead it is his friend. They just got back from getting tuxes for his wedding (my boyfriend is best man). I was then INFORMED that I was picking up pop and meeting at their house tonight at 8 for pizza and a movie. Now, I've been w/my boyfriend for almost 6 years and we have never been invited let alone INFORMED. I politely told him no thank you, the weather is supposed to be very tonight and I have alot going on. It was then changed to Saturday, I again said no thank you, Cass has basketball practice and I'm working on favors for a baby shower, he then got very irritated and hung up on me.

I called my boyfriend back and went off hysterically. I'm running on 3 hours of sleep, worring about getting everything done for 2 showers and now this off the wall wedding he is involved with (we just found out about the wedding LAST WEEK. My boyfriend will go NO WHERE without me and I screamed at him that if his friend wants to treat me like that I will not be attending.

What the hell goes through people's heads. I know too much is going through mine but COME ON. We are supposed to get ANOTHER 6 inches of snow and he wants us to drive 1/2 hour for pizza and a movie because NOW he likes us!

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divin...
Jan. 7, 2010 at 1:29 PM

All things considered, I'd just stay home. People really do not have the right to make this sort of demand on you. Grace to you.

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