bad dads ...

[lil_boo_kandi]

about what been going on

 ok my to girls shannon and miranda have  a father that never help and have to keep them the last time they went for christmas..lol..(it really wasn't funny) but i have not let him see them since then.. like 2 years ago.. but he found me on facebook and asked to see them his grandma is sick and bla bla bla.. but i do understand.. i just don't trust him.. last night on the phone he was talking to miranda and was asking her the name of her scool and stuff... y dose he need all that so u no when that feeling hit''s ya .. i didn't what to do.. i don't even wanna send them now..so i wrote him on facebook and told him the girls can't come until i have an address for him and an # and address for his grandma marry.. i just don't trust him at all..

 ok, today is the day.. the girls get home around 2:30 and their dad gonna be here around 3... my going nuts i just want it to go fast .. they will not be home until monday cuz no school tomorrow or monday.. i got the phone # and address's so im gonna let it happen the girls are soo happy!!! and i want them to be happy... and its a lil crazy they call my man (brandon) daddy but since they talked to their dad .. they try not to cuz they don't want to make their dad mad but brandon been their the last 6 years with them... no one asked them to call him that they just started out of the blue but it made me feel good that they care for him like that, ooohhhh i wish their dad would just never come around .. :(( i don't like being mean .... just going crazy inside.. he a bad person :(( my brother died in  his house and oohh i could go on!!!

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[JHall]

Jan. 14, 2010 at 12:54 PM

Does he have the rights to see them? If he doesn't you don't have to let them go. I know you don't want to be mean and that you are happy that your girls are happy but you know when your gut is telling you something is wrong! If you don't feel good about them going then say know and make times for him to see the girls when you can be around til you can trust him again. I have a friend and a sister that is going through something like this. My sisters ex BF doesn't want to pay child support and really doesn't want to see his son. It really sucks for the kids that are in this situation cause they really don't know what is going on.   I hope for you and your girls everything works out and that he has changed. But like I said if he has no rights to even see them then you really don't have to let them go.

[SylviaNCali]

Jan. 14, 2010 at 4:47 PM

If he's truly a bad person then why let him see the kids? I don't understand I would't want him to see the kids if he's not a decent person. But I do hope that he is OK to them and that it all works out.