my husband

[tazkitty]

I love him and he is trying so hard to be helpful and bond with our child.  He puts him to bed every night and feeds him a bottle.  He plays with him, changes him, dresses him and takes him to day care.  He helps out when I ask.  My husband has a very depending job in health care and is in charge of many people and programs, which means alot of blackberry, laptime time.  He takes care of finances, because I don't and would rather take care of house.  I wish we could spend as much energy on each other as much as we do taking care of work issues, house and child.  We have a good and solid relationship but I just wish we would take one hour a day with no interuptions just to be a couple.  No phone calls, no texting no nothing but us.  I want to ask him but don't know if this is impossible, especailly with a child and us wanted to sleep and also have time to exercise, ect...  My husband is a good man and I love that he tries.  I just want us to be more involved in each other. 

[Lb128f]

Jan. 16, 2010 at 11:41 AM

He sounds like a great guy. Maybe you could plan a weekend alone? Ask for help from relatives with watching your child...I agree it's important for you two to have some time alone without distractions! Good Luck!