`well as u can tell by mi user name im 17 & having twins these r mi 1st kids. im good with kids but im jus woried about makeing a mistake rasing mines. im also woried about skol i plain to keep goin but i dont want to miss out on anyting or have them thinking that mi mom iz their mom because shes da one whos going to b wit them most of the time. i also want 2 work so i can buy thigs 4 mi babys insted of mi mom having 2 do it their not her responsabilty bu tthat will take away more time 4rm mi kids. their father isnt goin 2 b here 4 them hes nt here now hehmakes promises 2 dostuf but he duznt he hasnt bn 2 a single appt in da whole 5 munths & he didnt even care when i told him that tah docter said that our son might not make it. i have loud nabors u can only here them 4rm mi room wich iz were the babys will b sleeping. what can i do about them? basicaly i need to know how to juggle skol kids & posibley workshrugging

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Jan. 23, 2010 at 4:01 AM

You will do great. Being a mom is a blessing even though it will be hard it will be worth it in the end. Trust God to care for and lead you and your growing family. You can do this. None of us are perfect and we do what we think is best. God would not have given you these two blessings if you could not do it. Keep your head up sweety! Life is just beginning!



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Feb. 11, 2010 at 10:40 PM

Swings and Jumpers will be your bestfriends for doing home work and stuff at home. If your school district provides it you should try to get it so that you can do school from home so you are still there with them and can still get your diploma. I don't know about schools in cali but I know you can do it in Tx. Read your school material to them even now while your pregnant it said to make them better able to comprehend.

You'll be fine. You just have to work out a schedule that works for you. GL

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Mar. 1, 2010 at 4:20 PM

Do school online. You can even do college online which pays you to do it so that takes care of the money. I knoe here as long as you are still in school you are eligible for government assistent check which can also help you with your little ones. Take advantage of the help you have now so you can go to school and get an education and become something so you can provide for these babies.

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May. 23, 2010 at 5:32 PM

You will do fine, we were all nervous when we are pregnant with our first babies! But please, please stay in school, become educated, you need to be smarter than this if your going to be raising children. Good luck, and don't depend on any guy, take the father to court and get child support, it will help you out so much, and it's his obligation as their parent.

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