URL's and etc

[CloudWeaver]

Recently found a few URL links that had info pertinent to my situation.

First one is 9 signs he is cheating:

http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/men/nine-signs-he-is-cheating?link=rel&dom=msn&src=syn&con=art&mag=mar

Signs he is cheating
1. Less Sex
2. Jumpy Cell phone habits
3. Gushing or Talking about suddenly
4. Disconnect
5. He's pulling Houdinis
6. Friends acting Strange
7. Caught in other lies about other things
8. Been there done that
9. Your gut tells you so

Then another URL on being dumped:

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlemcmatch.aspx?cp-documentid=23234446&GT1=32023

1. I got bored
2. One of us was too serious
3. Burnout
4. I was tempted to Cheat
5. All my friends broke up with their girlfriends
6. Divergent Lives...changes that caused the break up i.e. moving to a new town or new job
7. Feeling selfish
8. I "misread" my feelings
9. My Friends and Family didnt like her
10. I took her for granted
11. She was too serious

Well I am going to make my own list of what he has done or is doing below

Less Sex
Jumpy cell phone habits
Gushing or Talking about suddenly
Caught in other lies about other things
Your gut tells you so

* Mind you he admitted to cheating just not who with

Feeling Selfish
I took her for granted

Do you remember when you are a kid first starting to have bf's or gf's if you're a guy?
How you'd ask questions like:

Do you like me?
Do you think (fill in name here) is cute?
Would you go out with (fill in name here)?

So now I will simply cut off the appendage and move on in my own way.
I wont do whatever unless I feel like it or cause its something I am
doing for myself. I am tired of the nonsense. Of the lies, pain, and mental agony
I have been put thru cause of this crap. Now I am quitely going to do what I must
for myself and keep on going. Wishing all the best

So what do you think after reading this?

[Chele18504]

Jan. 26, 2010 at 10:01 PM

I think you need to listen to your gut instincts.  I also know first hand that you will wake up one day and say, "I can't do this anymore".  You are entitled to be happy, if you're not then you are the only one who can change that.  You have the courage and strength, now all you need to do is take that first step.  I wish you lots of luck!

[CloudWeaver]

Jan. 28, 2010 at 12:06 AM

*(((((((((((( Chele18504 )))))))))))* Thank you so much! :)

(Original Poster)