I'm in pieces :(

[Pukity]

My biggest happiness which is my daughter is finally here, she was born on Dec. 15th, 09, and after a long pregnancy, full of problems with my ex-boyfriend who I was sure was her father, she was born healthy, finally yesteraday Jan. 27th we got the results of the DNA test and it came back negative, it's really heart breaking for both of us, we love each other, but he can't forgive me,he thinks that I cheated on him,  even though I told him that I never cheated on him, that she was a product of a previous casual sex that I have 2 weeks before meeting him, now he hates me, and he is destroyed too because he really wanted a child, specially a girl, and I'm in a thousand pieces too because I lost him, and I feel empty, the other guy, it's a zero to the left, I know he won't be responsible, so now I have to raise my child on my own, and I have no idea of how to rebuild my life, I love my daughter, but honestly I don't know If I will be able to do this alone.

[MSugarKane]

Jan. 28, 2010 at 8:55 AM

Give him some time.  He may come around.  Don't push him.  Good luck!

[awelling]

Jan. 28, 2010 at 10:50 AM

You will be able to do it on your own if you have to.  Maybe your ex will come around.  It doesn't matter if his is dad by genetics, he can still be her dad if he loves her and helps raise her.  If he can not handle it, someday you will find someone else who will love both of you.  good luck!