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Am I not being a good host?
- Jan 29, 2010 at 5:36 PM
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This past tuesday my hubbys friend comes here from ATL. He and my husband make all the arrangements but hubby and I agreed on the duration of his visit with us. We agreed upon one week from tues to tues. We rented a bed for him to sleep in in order for him to be comfortable and put him in the spare room where my husband keeps all his music stuff.
It is a known fact that my husband has company in the basement DAILY working on music and the invited guest agreed he would be comfortable in this room because he also does music which would give him a chance to work on his art as well.
And here is where it gets good.........i come down here on wednesday (day 1) and the bed isnt made, the room smells of feet and body odor, trash on the floor, cups in here and im pissed! He didnt bring any spending money so outside his meals he has no money for recreation.
Day 2- he still has'nt showered,doesnt want to do anything but sleep and make beats (music). Me and my husband go play some pool at the pool hall and get a couple of beers and we invite him. We come downstairs at 4:30pm with our coats on and he is still in the bed and says he isnt going!
Day 3- Eating up my childrens cereal, im in the room now on our family computer and the bed once again isnt made and there is a foul odor in here and he and myhusband went to play basketball with some friends. In the time that he has been here (3 days) i have spent $100.00 on food and its all GONE! We still have tmrw, sun, and monday, and half of tues before he leaves and still more food is needed along with whatever we do recreationally.
I dont know what in the heck my husband told him prior to coming here but who in the world goes out of town broke and dont want to do anything but sleep? No shower, no getting dressed (except today) and im up to my ears! My husband tells me that i shouldnt worry about recreation because the guy dont want to do anything but i really wanted him to enjoy himself while he was here but i see he in so many ways...already has.
I honestly cant say that i will invite him to visit us again. Im looking on the floor and seeing dirty clothes and the sheets are completely missing off the bed have absolutely zero clue what he did with them!
HELP!!!!!! What if this were you? Am i overreacting? I need your advice!
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gurl you are not overreacting at all!!!!!!! me and my hubby woulda been up in there goin at it. and if he didnt say anything to him then i would becuz you cant come to someones house and not shower and think that you are supposed to live completely off of them. come on...but tara that was funny about the feet and body odor though. but wait!!!!!! what did he do with the sheets? gurl put on some rubber gloves before you touch them aint no tellin what he did witth them thangs. lol. it wont be much longer so try and hang in there.
No,Your not over reacting!! And I am very familiar with that smell,I call it 'man stank'.My brothers room smells of man stank,it makes me wanna gag!!
LOL yall crazy! and no doubt im right back down here in this room and again today is saturday....no bed made, no sign of the white sheets, and it still smells like booty and balls and feet in here! Ladies yall gotta help me cause i cant make it till tuesday! What am i gonna do? HELP!!!!!!
awwww man! it seems to be gettin worse! lol. dont worry momma, tuesday is right around the corner. you can do it i have faith in you. just dont invite him back. lol.
guess this just backs up the old saying about house-guests n fish, only yours started stinking after 1 day instead of 3! lmbo - and I really wouldn't like the idea of having a friend/visitor in my house alone all the time. I mean, wth is he doing in your house while you n hubby are gone? kinda creepie if ya ask me!
and he's in the basement, it's not like he needs to make a rope to lower himself to sneak out the window. WHAT IS he doing with those sheets??!!
yea, I'd tell hubby that next time his friend is in town he needs to arrange for a hotel!
hold up yall.....lol its monday and its official that 6 whole days went by and no bed made. only ONE shower taken, and the basement is reeking t
he three B's which are------breath, booty,and balls! me and hubby had a long talk today and decided that he cant visit again. but hold on yall why do i get the feelin he read this journal??? he said something about not comming back to Detroit cause "he eats to much cereal"! roflmbo!!! now ladies ask me if i care?
Ok yall he is gone! But why did he leave this room EXTRA funky! Today we invited him to go to the movies with us (he declined). We went and ate (he did not) and then at 5:30 we dropped him off at the airport. Im certain he read my journal cause he hadnt said much to me and really said nothing to me today but once again who cares! This is a lesson learned for me cause im not inviting anyone else to stay at my house again for a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng time. Did yall catch how many N's was in long? LOL its gonna be that long ladies! So bye stinky butt see you....wheneva!
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