Overcoming Obstacles In Life

[Alesha74]

I just wanted to share something with everyone…You see I am a addict. And I have been sober 5 years ago today. And I wish that I could say that the road I had taken was the easiest, because it definitely wasn’t. And that’s ok. It all started 6 1/2 years ago when my kids were having problems of truancy because of a very severe head lice infestation, the school called the state and they came for a visit. Well, they offered services and after we refused them they started making us take drug tests which of course we both failed miserably. Then came the domestic disturbances cause our neighbors would call the cops when we would fight. In the end The state took all 4 girls and placed them in a foster home. They were only there for a week before my mom who was all by herself in a 4 bedroom house, took them in. I was subjected to “random” weekly drug testing that I had to do before I was able to have a visit with my kids. 7 months after the girls were taken from us, I (at this point my husband and I were separated) went to the caseworker and told her how I was able to get past the testing and that I needed help finding drug treatment. I was quickly set up with a addiction counselor. And given an evaluation. The next day I left for treatment at a in-patient facility. I spent 47 days there. I wish I could say that I took the easy way thru it but I didn’t. I have spent the past 5 years rebuilding my life. My husband and I have set some goals for ourselves and so far we are making them. We both got treatment for our addictions, I am receiving psych care due to being bipolar etc and have been taking meds regularly. And In May of last year we got the girls back. When I look back at the road that I traveled on to get to where I am now, I realize that it was a long but fruitful one. And I have learned so much while on this journey. Post your own story about any obstacles that you have had to face and that now when you reflect on it you get a sense of pride. So i say this, mom's speak up and post an obstacle that you have overcome.

[satkinson78]

Feb. 4, 2010 at 5:36 AM

Thank you for sharing your story. I hope that you doing well and you continue to do so.  I understand addiction.  I know what that hell is.  I am very happy for you that you were able to come through it...and obviously a better and stronger person besides.

[boogernoodle]

Feb. 4, 2010 at 8:28 AM

    I love to read these kind of stories.Good for you.What a source of strength your girls have in you.My mom lost her battle with mental illness and addiction.It was devastating as a daughter to grow up with.Yeah for you girl!

[philsmom977]

Feb. 5, 2010 at 2:56 PM

good for you!  I am an ACOA and have seen what drug addiction can do to a loved one.  I cant imagine going through that hell with 4 children to boot. I think you are very brave and I just want to cheer for you and hubby.  Congrats on what must be very hard work!