Baby's First Hair Cut

[xomisskissesxo]

This should have been a positive milestone. I imagined seeing TJ sitting in the barber chair, enveloped in a cape & me snapping pictures. I imagined I'd get a single curl & have it tied with a blue ribbon so that I could put it in his baby book.

Instead, I walk to the back room where Tahj was supposed to be getting TJ dressed & there he is! Tahj had cut TJ's effin' hair! It's crooked, it's sloppy, it looks a hot mess is what it looks like. No pictures, I didn't even know about it. No hair saved. Just.... I feel... robbed of that experience with my son. &What pisses me off the most is just LAST NIGHT my mom & I were talking about the entire experience & I voiced what I wanted & for him to do this today just shows me that he doesn't care about what I want or how I feel.

How can you be with someone who doesn't care about you & repeatedly proves to you in different ways that they don't care about hurting your feelings?

I'm supposed to go to PA & ME to visit my friends & family but I just don't have it in my heart to get packed & go. How much heartache can a girl handle before enough is enough? I don't know, but let's just say I'm right about there.

[Krystal.Ingalls]

Feb. 9, 2010 at 6:24 PM

=(  Aw.  I'm  sorry you didn't get the 1st haircut experience you wanted.  But, the next time you can take him to the barber shop and make a big deal about his 1st "big boy" hair cut.  It may not be his 1st, but it's still a big deal.  You can save a lock of hair and snap lots of pictures and everything.  My son's 1st haircut was at home, too.  He freaks around strangers and I didn't want his 1st haircut to end up dangerous!  Lol.  Try to cheer up.  Go visit with your friends and family and have a great time!

[shyysmom]

Feb. 10, 2010 at 10:12 AM

i understand how you feel because he blatantly went against what he knew mattered to you

it sounds like he did it out of spite. why do you think he has these feelings of animosity towards you

ill just say this since i dont know the history

dont try to force something to work that is not going to work

if he proves to you time and time again that he is not the man you need him to be...accept that and move on

baby's daddy or no baby's daddy

because in the end you will end up the miserable one