I'm 29. I work full time in a career I love. I'm a mom. I'm a dance teacher. My schedule is crazy.Currentyly my DH and I are separated. I keep thinking that we will work it out, but now I'm questioning. So my DH and his cousins went out. I was supposed to go but had to wait for my lock to get fixed at my apartment. I wound up not going. So when I talk to him this morning, he's telling me about the night. One of his cousins and I are good friends. She was so drunk that she was puking in a bucket at DH's house all night. My DH is so hung over. I just don't get it. I don't see the point in any of it. I'm all for going to have a good time but the drinking until you puke I just don't get. I'm a morning person..not a night person. I went through my going out phase when I was 21. My DH says that I'm lame. LAME? It's just not my thing. So this now makes me question..will we really work out? We've been married 5 years and have a 3  year old DS. I just would rather stay in and watch a movie or go to diner and go to the movies. Not go to the bar make out with other girls, show off my boobs, get trashed and puke then have it ruin my next day. I just don't get it. Am I really the only one who feels like this? I feel so different!

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Feb. 27, 2010 at 2:18 PM

No you're not at all!!  I am the same way.  I got through this phase real soon in my life to where when I was 21 I thought whats the point, I'm legal now.

Some men don't ever fully just grow up (seems like your DH)

I think it's best you call it quits or this is how you will feel the rest of your life.  Find someone grown as you are and live happily ever after in "Grown-Up Land"

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Feb. 4, 2011 at 12:20 PM

I know you posted this a long time ago, but I'm just now reading your journals. I agree with you. I think it is maturity to be able to move past that stage of needing to go out and get drunk all the time. Drinking occasionally is more than sufficient and really, if you can't have fun without drinking at all, I would say that person has problems. How are things for you now?

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