I am sure there are many many pet lovers out there. We all love our babies very much. We spend alot of years together. We make wonderful memories together. We know at some time and point, we are going to lose them. We try not to think about it. We dread it. But then - it happens. We go to pieces. It is like we are in a daze and don't know what to do next.

How in the world are we ever going to make it without them? We relied on them to keep us company. We relied on them to make us feel loved, wanted and needed. We beg them not to leave us but then we think about it and tell them if they really have to go, it is okay. Some don't even get to say good bye.We feel guilty.

We think to ourselves - Is there anything I could have done to save them? You feel so empty inside. It is so hard to lose a member of your family. It is crushing! The hurt is soooo deep! You wish you could hold them one more time. No one or nothing will EVER be able to take their place! Signed, Heartbroken Mom 

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OldnW...
Apr. 22, 2010 at 11:09 AM

I know how you feel, Gail!  It really hurts a lot--a LOT--

This is exactly why I started Sophie's Sweeties--so we can help each other thru this heartache.

Being an admin in this group is giving you something to do with that hurt--use the experience to help and comfort other moms who are going thru the same thing!

You are a blessing, Gail!  And we are so happy you're here!

Hope today's a better day, Sweetheart!

Love you bunches!

Your sister in Christ, Wanda

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