So I haven't been on here in awhile and I thought I would update everyone with the things.

Still in the process of divorce. No clue when that will be done and over. Since he is in Arkansas and I am in Oregon.

I was seeing someone a few months back, but things didn't work out. When I tried to break things off he told me it was pregnancy hormones and I would get over it. When I finally did break things off with him, he be came mean and emotionally abusive. He started accusing me of cheating on him and saying he wanted a paternity test. He even went so far as to admit to me that he intentionally got me pregnant. He knew I didn't want to be pregnant. And he said he was trying to get me pregnant so I wouldn't leave him. He sabotaged the condoms and didn't tell me when the broke, plus he tried to make them break. Not to mention buying extra thin ones. Anyway......... Now he is threatening that if I don't tell him when I am having the baby he will take me to court and get joint custody or take the baby from me. He is causing me all sorts of stress. (Oh and he is living in Florida with his dad.) Since he moved, I have moved and I changed my number to stop his harassing texts. I just want him out of my life but no clue how I can do that. He will just screw this baby up if he gets the chance.

Ok.....enough about that. Mackenzie is 4.5 years old now. Hailey is 3. Theodore is almost 2. And they are all as active as can be. I am almost in shock at the fact that I almost have a 5 year old. lol. Not to mention soon I will have 4 children. I don't know how I will survive.

Well I really need to go. I appreciate anyone who reads this. Thank you for listening.

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Lb128f
Mar. 18, 2010 at 9:52 AM

Good Luck....I hope things work out for you with the baby!

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Vinta...
Mar. 19, 2010 at 8:35 AM

I hope things work out. Stay away from men for awhile. You apparently are one of those unlucky in love type of ladies. Spend time with your babies and let relationships happen when they will naturally and without looking for one :)

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fibro...
Mar. 25, 2010 at 10:18 PM

I am sorry too hear about your problems!  I hope your doing and feeling a little better now and things start lloking up for you! You and your kids are in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully that guy will stay away from you and leave you alone. Sometimes love can really suck! On the bright side you have your beautiful kids and they are lucky cuz they have such a awesome mom like you! If you ever need a friend to talk to or vent with you can always count on me. Your awesome and hopefully things will get better for you and be less stressfull and that you will find happiness and peace!you rock

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