My husband and I have been separated for 6 months. We have a 3.5 year old DS. We've gone back and forth on working and not working it out. I want it to sooo bad for by DS.. but I'm to the point where I don't even know who I am anymore. I'm doing and agreeing to things I said I never would. I just feel lost. When is enough enough? How do you know when you've tried everything? Marriage is supposed to be hard... I really get that. But how hard? I could really use some advice. I want to be happy. I'm petrified to be a single mom. I'm tired of going through all the emotions with my husband. I just with there was a judge that could say YES!! You've tried your best now be happy!!! Any advice would be sooo appreciated!!!