My husband and I have been separated for 6 months.  We have a 3.5 year old DS. We've gone back and forth on working and not working it out. I want it to sooo bad for by DS.. but I'm to the point where I don't even know who I am anymore. I'm doing and agreeing to things I said I never would. I just feel lost.  When is enough enough? How do you know when you've tried everything? Marriage is supposed to be hard... I really get that. But how hard? I could really use some advice. I want to be happy. I'm petrified to be a single mom. I'm tired of going through all the emotions with my husband. I just with there was a judge that could say YES!! You've tried your best now be happy!!! Any advice would be sooo appreciated!!!

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Mar. 31, 2010 at 11:25 AM

i think that if you think you have tried all you can especially for your children then it may be time to move on. The only reason i say that is because life is too short to be unhappy but in the same note life can take forever if you are unhappy. Why spend it with people who make you feel this way, you know. i know it is a tough decision but that how i look at it. i hope this helps.

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Feb. 4, 2011 at 12:30 PM

All of these posts were so long ago! I'm really interested to know how you've worked everything out. Post an update, please? :o)

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