Moments of not being able to make up minds..

[preciousones4me]

Hi! I am wondering how many of you make up your minds, and then change them, and the decision affects everyone lol..including your significant other. In my case, this is going to sound SO stupid, but I want to try and make everyone happy, and that does include my kids. I have 2 girls, 7 and 5 and they share a room, and we bought a bunkbed for them, and they had it up for quite a few months, but my oldest (who was on the top) didn't like it. She has this incredible fear about bugs .. and she always felt like they were going to get her, with her being on top right? So, me, trying to make EVERYONE happy, gets my DH involved and we take apart the beds. It's been 2 single beds in a TINY room for probably 3 months now, but their room is SO small, and the bunkbed would be great u know? So...here's where my question comes in. Do you ever make decisions that you thought would benefit everyone at the time, but then change your mind to go back to what you had in the beginning? I'm not sure I want to ask my DH again, because I know he will give me crap. Grrr. and all my guy friends live back home where we moved from. Ugh lol. Being 5'2 doesn't make things easy :p. What would you do? Thank you for your time in reading this :)

[SophieLee]

Apr. 8, 2010 at 12:09 AM

Meh... just say it is for the kids and he will willing do it... LOL

[Ashli]

Apr. 8, 2010 at 10:31 AM

Well honestly sometimes if you have to you  take the bad with the good. If it will benifit everyone ... why not.  It was worth a try and if it didnt work out you now know. right? So dont stress about it. Its a small thing in life and you have much better things to be worried about. :) good luck! love you!