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Thoughts from my crazy life

Can one of you total nutcases out there (and I know there are MANY of you) please tell me why you seek pleasure in hurting other people?  The people I am speaking of are us PAP's (the psychos will know, but for those of you who don't, that is Prospective Adoptive Parent).  Do you have no conscience at all?  How can you lie about wanting to place a baby with a PAP who is living and breathing adoption?  I guess perhaps I could understand if you were gaining financially as that is at least a REASON, but most of you do it for the pure emotional satisfaction.  What is wrong with you? If you are that damaged psychologically, get some help. 

And one last note.  Please don't mistake PAP's as being weak, easy targets.  We are much more resilient that you can imagine and we will NOT let you beat us down.  So go away and leave us alone.  You don't understand who you are dealing with.

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hq9858
Apr. 7, 2010 at 4:34 PM

AMEN!!!!!

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lysithea
Apr. 7, 2010 at 5:44 PM

I completely agree. And we stand together whenever someone out there wrongs  us so it hopefully doesn't happen to someone else.

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mysa
Apr. 7, 2010 at 5:56 PM


                 So let it be written, so it shall be done!!!!! I have always thought that "they" are the newest "battle" for the modern Psychology.
Aren't "they" aware of the well known "Karma"......hhhmmmm
Let's remain together and strong.....together we will achieve our goal
.we rock

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smoke...
Apr. 7, 2010 at 6:51 PM

WOW!  Sorry you all are going through this.  So very cruel.

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want1...
Apr. 8, 2010 at 9:16 AM

KARMA is a ***** you know!  I too have been emotionally scammed twice.  I am so very thankful for my fellow PAP's that gave me a head's up when they noticed something wasn't looking kosher.  I think you are right, these demented girls don't relalize that we ALL stick together and look out for each other.  That is one good thing that has come out of all of my experiences.  I found some WONDERFUL friends who I know have my back, always.  The adoptive community stands STRONG together!  And no, we are not weak.  We are emotional and we have hearts of gold....we may be vulnerable but we are not stupid.

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