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Lies lies lies... so sad
- Apr 19, 2010 at 10:01 PM
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In one of my groups... our old GO left in a big, dramatic bruhaha. It was horrible. Basically, the Admins of the group were forced (by her increasingly erratic behavior) to stage an intervention. We basically told her that we cared about her and wanted to help her... but things needed to change regarding the group. She got mad... she left. Gave the group to another member and walked away. She then "unfriended" all of us. (Yes.... this is horribly condensed and leaves alot out... but it covers the "meat" of the issue)
She came back to the group with anger, bitterness and a bad attitude. She got mad and left again.
Now... weeks later, it's happened again. Just as the group has returned to normal and things are going smoothly. In she comes and with her.... the drama. Hurt, pain, and bitterness.
She and two others demand to know EVERY detail from everyone involved. Names are called... accusations made. She claims to want to mend fences and work things out. But when I PM'd her and tried to air things out and mend fences... she said it wasn't worth responding to and I was either a liar or had been "fed bad information".
The thing is... all the "bad info" she was talking about (except one item) were alll things I witnessed MYSELF. I watched what she did. I read her words. How on earth can she say that all this is "lies" or "bad information"?
Now she's formed another group for the purpose of discussing the original group and the drama that precipitated her departure. Basically she's using it as a soapbox to vent her hate for all of us.
It's killing me. I want to charge in there and say HOW DARE YOU TELL SUCH LIES! But what would it solve? Nothing. Her little synchophants won't care. All it would do is draw me deeper into her misery.
Blah. I hate all of this. I can't believe that some of the people in that group actually BELIEVE her!
Comments:
bashing other groups or members is against CM group guidelines. If she is identifying the original group by name or any of the members by name, she is breaking CM rules. You can report her.
I just commented on her journal and told her whats done is done and nothing can change it. I was hurt and so where many others because some of us knew nothing that was going on and we where deleted from her friends without warning or an explanation.
It sucks, big time, that not everyone in the world can be stable. It sucks worse that there are people who can fake stable for long enough to draw us in.
The more she tries to re-open this old wound, the worse she is making herself look. I didn't know what was going on before, but now that all the details have come out I feel I can safely say that the new GO & admin team did the right thing and acted sensitively and sensibly. And I think I speak for many others when I say that.
thank you Em...
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