he moved in with me to sleep with her????

[JayCripps]

i realized something yesterday while i was at my friends house... my fiance cheated on me which we have talked about and are trying to deal with but not to well to be honest. Anyway he moved in with me in october actually the second weekend in october and less then a week later he is f***ing his exgirlfriend... so makes me wonder if he moved in with me so that they could hook up and his family would not be around all the time. I worked different hours then him so i can not help but wonder.

then come to find out he was cheating on me because he wanted to be like is friend who cheats all the time and gets away with it many of the time... so that was his reason for cheating on me was because he wanted to like is friend.

Now this guy and him are not friends because my bf says he does nto want that life style and does nto want to be like him.. so what an i suppose to think and believe..

Just want to get some feed back and see what everyone else thinks about this

[Babydoll1015]

Apr. 26, 2010 at 12:45 AM

I don't want to come across too harsh... how can you possibly think this relationship is going to work? He cheated on you because he has a friend who cheats? That is just ridiculous! You deserve better then that. He sounds like a loser. He has no respect for you. Kick him out and move on. I wish you the best of luck!

[MSugarKane]

Apr. 26, 2010 at 8:07 AM

Once a cheater, always a cheater.  Be super careful you don't get any STD's from him. 

[CloudWeaver]

Apr. 26, 2010 at 8:17 AM

I told you before I would rather go alone than have a liar, cheater, and backstabber in my bed. Then comes the STD's risk factor getting higher. Um I think you know where I am coming from on that one. Hence, do what you must, but you sure dont need him as much as he needs you.

Hugs

[JayCripps]

Apr. 26, 2010 at 9:15 PM

thanks part of me agrees with you guys part does not but i guess that is why love is all messed up sometimes huh? Anyone else with feed back it would be appreciated

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