As some of you have read I was in a very horrible relationship.  Things came to an end on all days my daughter's 2nd birthday / fathers day last year.  He dumpede me.  I was hurt but I was very relieved.  I was doing my thing on the side like he was but at that time i did it I had gotten fed up with the cheating and the lies.  I have met some losers along the way. But I have met a few nice ones.  I feel so wonderful now.  I am at 90/10%, I am on my way to being a 100% better.  2010 I dedided to focus on myself and my children and it wonderful. Last year I filed for childsupport and I finally got my letter on my court day June 14th.  YEAH! 

Everything hasn't been going well with my children though.  My oldest and I got into a fight (no I didn't hit my child). She is going through the teen years (she's 14 now), she also has a learning disability and she is ADHD.  I fight with her to take her medicine and at one point I got tired.  But we are working hard to get her better and through this.

My son has been acting up and he is 6 now.  See his dad (my ex) had no time for him and his sister.  He rather chase these hoes and hang around in the streets. He just now seen them April 29 the last time was March 14. He doesn't thing he is hurting the kids but he is.  The other day my son sat in my arms and he broke down crying to me on how he is hurting.  Broke my heart.  My friends want to tell his dad off so bad. I told them go ahead somebody does some of his family won't.  I getting him help through counseling at school and then getting him a mentor. He wants to play basketball and my best friend uncle coaches.  So that is a good thing.

My second oldest is now 11 and she is doing well although she feels her teacher doesn't like her. I called the teacher out by telling her to call me so we can have a little chat.  Teacher hasn't responded yet.  She still goes to the neurologist every 3 mos for her migranes.  I keep an eye out this.  Last year we both had to get MRI's done and everything was clear.  Thank you Jesus!

 

 

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