I'm a total mess I got a call today from my doc I'm 26 yrs old and have cancer I have more biopsys this friday. I can't leave my 3 kids behind I just don't know what to do.

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PTBAAMom
May. 10, 2010 at 7:38 PM

Breath. Love on your babies. Focus on treatment options and your mental and physical health.  What type of cancer?  What kind of treatments and therapies are available?

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Crash...
May. 10, 2010 at 7:57 PM

Dont jump to conclusion you could very well be treatable and you have to be strong for your little ones.  Hang in there stay strong and dont allow yourself to be beat before you have begun the fight

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kenzi...
May. 10, 2010 at 9:17 PM

I'm sorry to hear that. Just think positive! You can overcome it. Your a mom and that proves your strong enough. I'll be praying for you and you.

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LadyS...
May. 10, 2010 at 11:28 PM

Hang in ther emomma..my DD has been fighting for 7 years..it isn't always a death sentence. I know it is scary but you can get through this, focus on the posative.

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babyc...
May. 10, 2010 at 11:43 PM

*hugs* I don't know what to say, besides, stay strong for your babies.

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RmeWi...
May. 11, 2010 at 12:24 AM

I'm sorry hun. Hopefully after the shock wears off, you can focus on getting treatment and thinking positive, so you can get better for your babies. <Cyber Hugs>

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Lb128f
May. 11, 2010 at 12:32 AM

Saying a prayer for you!

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cjsix
May. 11, 2010 at 12:49 AM

huggingHugs,momma! I know it's scary to be told that they found cancer...but,you have little ones who love you,there are many options to fight with depending on what you are fighting and YOU"VE GOT THE MOMS ON HERE FOR SUPPORT AND LOVE!!

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Anukete
May. 11, 2010 at 1:03 AM

I feel for you, this post is what actually made me decide to join Cafe Mom, I was browsing google for something and saw this..

I've been there, and I know how hard it is. It's devastating your right, but..you have to decide you want to live and kick this things butt!

I'm 31, and had a total hysterectomy on September due to a cancerous ovarian cyst, I dont have anything left female wise and take hormones, but I came out the other side a better person, and you will too!

Some advice- drink green tea, LOTS of it!! Get a juicer, a good one..the kind you can juice veggi's in..Do brocolli, cauliflower, tomatoes, you name it add it and add some fruit to give it a good flavor, diet is VERY important in beating this. I did tons of research on it all and read the studies, etc..made myself a little plan.

Id like to know what you have as well, maybe I could help offer more insight then..

Feel free to send me a pm or email me also.

*hugs tight*

You CAN and WILL beat it! Your mind is a powerful thing, You do need time to be upset, but you also need to get past that and get positive and decide your gonna win this thing.

Mind, and diet...two things you CAN control, and as the others said, love those babies..

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Babyl...
May. 11, 2010 at 3:08 AM

Voted pop mama! Listen to those who've been there. The one above me sounds like she knows what she's talkin about. Love on the babies and love on yourself! Keep us all posted so we can in turn love on you too! Sending lots of prayers and hugs your way, sweetheart!

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