I can not believe what an A**hole he is

[JayCripps]

Well yesterday was out one year anniversary and he forgot... after i took him back after his affair he has not done much to show he is sorry and he forgot our anniversary. He claimed he forgot he had a lot on his mind

My BFF was in the ER for 7 hours i went with her last week, and also my "sister" was in the ER for 4 hours the day before that... then my PIC is having issues with her husband and is in fear of things at her house. I am pregnate and alot is going on and YET i still remembered it.

I gave him a card yesterday and toldhim i was taking him to the movies for our anniversary... and he could not say thank you or love you or anything at all when i gave him the card. Then he went to his brothers from after work 4pm until 930 to drink beer and hang out. when i was there he ignored me completely.

Then he comes home with a dozen roses.. and this is what he said. i know i have slipped up lately.. sorry..

then proceeded to call his coworker for 20 minutes.. and then got on the computer... i fell asleep around 11pm and he still did not come to bed and at 1115 he was still not in bed. So sometime after 1115pm he came to bed. BLEW me off all day the day of our one year anniversary.. what the hell

he claims he forgot... but my bff and sister in law to be reminded him over the past few weeks and on mothers day he made a comment about next weekend (our anniversary) we were going to do something just him and I.

I cant help but wonder the way he has been acting if he is sleeping with someone else again.. i mean i have been home most of the time so i dont see when he would have time but still what the hell.

[daisyb]

May. 15, 2010 at 9:43 PM

 

  WOW- I am sorry your husband forgot your First Anniversary- That is a Big One to forget- i hope he finds a way to make it up to you- You deserve to be treated so much better than that- Hope things work out for you- Take Care

[Lb128f]

May. 16, 2010 at 12:22 AM

I agree with  daisyb! Is this the marriage/relationship you want? It sounds like he's missing out on more than just your Anniversary. I'm sorry.

[rebabeach2]

May. 16, 2010 at 4:51 PM

Yikes. I'm so sorry! It sounds like things are not going the way you hoped or planned with this relationship. I would seriously suggest some counseling ASAP. Good luck!

[JayCripps]

May. 16, 2010 at 9:24 PM

Yeah sad thing is we are not married engaged... and  he still wants to get married and is acting like nothing is wrong.. i really think ALL men eat FART flakes every morning for breakfast

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