But then they don't turn out to be who you thought they were.

Never in my life have I ever been accused of such things.  I met a friend on cafemom and I went to see her last year.  Her husband didn't know I was coming as he was gone for the weekend.  She apparently knew that if she told him that he would say no because of an issue that did not involve her of a meeting that went wrong from off the net. 

When we met we hit it off, and we had a great time together.  We had talked for the whole year on facebook, cafemom, and texting and calling for the whole year.  I shared the ups and downs of my marriage and my children with her.  She shared hers, we both agreed that our husbands could be a holes.. and thought we could be better off without them.  Others on cafemom knew about all this too, and even they agreed. 

Well this girl is bipolar, normally I don't have an issue with all that .. until today.  I had joined a chat group here on cafemom about 2 weeks ago, and I was talking to her in there and on meebo.  Recently her son threw their little dog from the top bunk of his bed, and caused the dog to get a broken leg.  She was trying to figure out what to do, and went to the vet .. too much money, went to the Humane Society, they wouldn't do anything, or couldn't.. so she had a friend take it to Mexico to get it fixed and she will have her dog back.  Well someone ratted her out to the police and the Humane Society, and she asked me yesterday after it happened, if I was the one who did, and I was flabbergasted.  Of course not I said.

I would not do such a thing.

Well today in this chat she while I was gone and still in the room, I came back to see her saying things like she thinks I did it, and that I complain about my husband my children, how my husband verbally abuses me and this that and the other, and how my son doesn't listen.. blah blah... and that she wanted to come and visit me again? NO she won't, cause of my issues, when she has her own cause her story doesn't end there.  I won't go into details of her story...

but MY GOD ladies, or anyone who reads this.  I would never do that to anyone, accidents happen, and we are all people.  We have issues just like everyone else does, and we deal and complain.  We might always take each other's advice, but we like to have the ear to complain to.

I am hoping that she will find out who truly ratted her out, cause it was not me, and that she finds shame in her heart for accusing me.  I am sad today cause of this, but I will get over it, as I know in my heart and soul that I am a good person.  I vow from this day forward to make my life a better life, and that I will make my marriage work as I do love my husband and love him for who he is and what he does.  I might not always like what he says, or does, but life is too short to hold grudges

May this ex friend of mine find peace in her world


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May. 21, 2010 at 6:30 PM

I am really sorry Mama.  You certainly don't deserve that.  SHE lost a friend today that is a really great person...so sad for her.  ((hugs))

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