I am so confused. Thoughts much needed. :-(

[LaurenKaye29]

My son's dad is a great father, but I'm feeling like he's just not my type. I am 23 years old and we got together when I was 20. He was so sweet in the beginning. But ever since my son was born, things just went sour in a hurry. For the last two years he's treated me more like his maid/sex slave. I don't get along with him. He's obsessed over everything. I took my son to the pool, put on plenty of sunscreen, and now he's mad because my son tanned. He is not at all burned by any means. He still lives with his parents and I know as a fact that if I stay with him, I'm staying with his parents. Now don't get me wrong, they aren't bad people. But I tend to notice his dad watches me like a hawk and reports it to Masiel. I can't help but want a break. I need a break. I have thoughts that I can't get rid of, such as wanting to see other people(well, not right away). I'm not happy with him and I've tried to make it work. I'm worn thin and I don't know how much I can take. I'm 23, young, and have my life ahead of me. I'm pretty much wasting my time. I feel so stuck. I settled for someone too fast and now I'm completely kicking myself in the ass for it. If I had somewhere else to go, I'd left. This is so depressing.

[AFWifey20]

Jun. 21, 2010 at 9:14 PM

sounds like you know what you want/need to do. it doesnt sound like the 2 of you have your spark anymore. stress of having a child can sometimes overwelm a couple. to do..you just have to find your inner strength and believe in your self to do it.

best of luck

i truely believe you know what

[mmmegan38]

Jun. 21, 2010 at 10:37 PM

Well it is stressful if you don't feel completly comfortable where you are. Where do you live? Do you have your own place? Having kid is stressful. Take some time to learn about your self.

 Stop spending the night at his parents house. Again you don't say if your living there on a full time basis. You also don't say your married to him. So take some time take a break and live life. Not in the shadow of a person who is trying to controll you.