husband started talking to me again

[countrybaby89]

My husband started to text me the other day... It has been continuous for a couple days now... Tons of texts.... Here are some of them...

"Can we talk in person?"

"I have no good reason for breaking them... but I'm trying to get on the right track these days"

"sticking to my promises... like the one i made to Ryan the last time i saw him"

"I'm trying to be on the right track... and do as i say I'm going to"

"I know sorry is never going to be enough"

"I feel pretty much the exact way I always have... not much has changed except my goals have shifted a little"

"everything I'm going to do it for me I'm not looking for anything in return"

"I'm telling you it wasn't you... it was me"

"I would love to have a pic of you smiling"

"In all honesty I feel as though I'm broken in pieces"

"Cause I miss you and Ryan... i miss being able to see my friends on a regularly and i cant do none of that..."

"Well what I thought I wanted i found out i don't exactly... there is more headaches than happiness"

"I just want to be happy... and truth be told im just lonely now and its killing me"

" download "come back son" by darius rucker"

"does this make you feel better... i miss you and Ryan"

"oh by the way i want you to remember what we previously texted about cause i had an epiphany the other day that i think you are going to like"

"just remember about the getting fixed part"

He has been gone 2 1/2 months and these are some of the texts from the last couple days... He wants to talk to me in person, he keeps saying he misses me and my son... He is saying a lot of stuff but I don't know if he actually means it...

[NannyB.]

Aug. 7, 2010 at 8:06 AM

This could be a very good sign.  I don't know what the problems were in the past nor why he left, but this is the time to draw some boundaries that you can enforce and if he needs to make permanent changes, this is the time to get thsoe made.  I would move very slowly and I would watch him very closely to see if he means to follow through with this or if he's just making a play to get his family back.  Don't rush into anything, but remember also that sometimes missing what one has had makes him appreciate it more.  So it could be a very good thing.

[motherofzandz]

Aug. 7, 2010 at 2:42 PM

Sounds like if you are wanting him back now may be a good time for taking things slow with some counceling

[MooNFaeRie30]

Aug. 9, 2010 at 5:22 PM

I don't know what all the problems were, but if you really want to work things out it does sound like he does. Maybe tell him that you want to take things slow and gt counselling as a couple before you jump in. Because if he isnt serious it is better to know now.