I have been a member of cafemom for a while now and use to love, love love coming here to talk with other mom. Now its gotten to the point where i don't even go into groups as often as I use to because some of the women on here are so negative. Yes you have an opinion. But do you need to degrade others for theirs? Ok you don't think a certain thing or area is great, but do you half to spew lies about it without knowing the facts. Your just going off of what you here or the statistics..... you don't live the day to day life or anything like that. Step off your high horse and have an open mind about things....Yea I think its time to leave some of these groups.