Which Direction?

[Mary67]

Which direction should I go? What is best for my family? How do we decide which path to choose? It is sooooo hard to decide! Should we adopt at our late age in life? Should we add on even though we can't get a Loan? Where do we go from here? Does anyone have any answers? I would like to sit down  with someone who is knowledgeable in these things. Who can tell me? 

[Ks_mom94]

Sep. 14, 2010 at 8:15 PM

Hey, Mary. You are only as old as you feel. If you feel that you are ready for another child, then your age should not have anything to do with it. I have know some grandparents raising a child that they had after their older children left the nest. The love it and say that having that child keeps them young. As for the addition, I would only do that without a loan if I could afford to do it without the loan. If you have the money now, but might not have money when you are finished, then I would say not to do the addition. But these are only suggests, and only you can take the path right for you and your family. Also, what does your husband say? Sometimes men can be very wise. Good luck! M~